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Work with me
What do you want?
Not what should you want.
Not what would make you a better partner, a more successful person,
or a more acceptable version of yourself.
What do you actually want?
Maybe you want to feel more at home in your body.
Maybe you want more pleasure. Better sex. Deeper intimacy.
Maybe you want to understand your desires, communicate your boundaries, explore your sexuality, or stop performing your way through
experiences you want to actually feel.
Or maybe everything looks pretty good from the outside
and you simply know there is more of you that you haven't met yet.
That's where we begin.
My coaching is built around you.
There is no prescribed version of sexuality, intimacy, pleasure or a good life that I want you to fit into.
Instead, we get curious.
We slow things down enough for you to hear yourself, connect with your body, explore what you want and notice what has been getting in the way.
Depending on what brings you here, our work might explore:
Pleasure & sexuality
Your relationship with pleasure, desire, arousal, orgasm,
sensuality and sexual expression.
Body & embodiment
Learning to notice, understand and respond
to the information your body gives you.
Boundaries & communication
Recognising your yes, your no, your maybe and your not-yet,
and becoming empowered in expressing them.
Love & intimacy
How you connect, receive, communicate, allow yourself to be seen
and stay connected to yourself while relating to another.
Sexual confidence & mastery
Moving away from performance and expectation and towards presence, sensation, exploration and deeper sexual self-knowledge.
Self & aliveness
Understanding what matters to you, what you want your life to feel like,
and how pleasure, creativity and desire can become part of the way you live.
You don't need to arrive knowing exactly what the problem is.
“I know something could feel better” is enough of a place to start.
1:1 Coaching
How we work
I currently work with clients privately in 12, 24 and 52-week coaching containers. The containers are online in zoom.
The right container depends on what you want to explore, where you're starting from and the kind of support that would serve you best.
Our work can include conversation, embodiment, meditation, movement, self-inquiry and practices between sessions.
This isn't passive work. Change asks for time, energy, accountability and responsibility.
Before we decide to work together, we talk.
This isn't a commitment and you don't need to arrive prepared with the perfect explanation of what's happening in your life.
We'll talk about where you are, what you want, and what you would like support exploring.
You can ask me anything you need to understand how I work.
I'll ask questions too.
And we'll decide whether working together feels right for both of us.
If it does, we'll choose the appropriate coaching container and discuss timing and investment.
Please fill out this form before our call.
The introduction call
Before we work together
Coaching is not psychotherapy, psychiatric care or medical treatment.
I am a coach, not a medical or mental-health professional.
My work is designed for people who are able to engage with coaching safely and take responsibility for their own wellbeing and choices.
If what you're experiencing would be better supported by a therapist, physician or another qualified professional, I will tell you.
Your boundaries matter here.
Your consent matters here.
You don't have to know where youre going,
you just have to be curious enough to explore.
What would become possible if you stopped performing the life you thought you should want—and started experiencing the one that's actually yours?
Please fill out this form before our call.
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